Perspective, please: husband is obsessed with guns

Wed Jul 13, 2011 8:35 pm by rbrgs

Hmmmf

Thu Jul 14, 2011 8:34 pm by PoppyMcGee

I appreciate all the feedback. Thanks a bunch. I've carefully read and thought about all of your suggestions, and I realized...I don't wanna. Which tells me all I need to know, really. I am just done with putting in the effort when I'm not seeing any results.

Thanks again for the perspective. It was definitely helpful to get a different point of view.

Thu Jul 14, 2011 9:12 pm by allissun

You're done?

Good luck PoppyMcGee.

love and light

all-is-sun

Thu Jul 14, 2011 9:30 pm by allissun

LyKkE Li i'm good, i'm gone

here's a fantastic female artist, and a song for you, PoppyMcGee, no matter how this all turns out...

Wed Jul 20, 2011 11:46 am by moodagig

Encourage him to continue. Even better, join him.

Gun practice is one of the best ways of investing your money.

You will probably lose most if not all of your physical possessions during the initial chaos, including your guns and stashes of ammo (at least you should be prepared for this). But what's in your head can never be taken away from you.

Once the dust has settled down, physical possessions can be regained fairly quickly, as long as you have acquired the skills necessary for a head start.

Wed Jul 20, 2011 1:37 pm by VaMom

PoppyMcGee wrote:I appreciate all the feedback. Thanks a bunch. I've carefully read and thought about all of your suggestions, and I realized...I don't wanna. Which tells me all I need to know, really. I am just done with putting in the effort when I'm not seeing any results.

Thanks again for the perspective. It was definitely helpful to get a different point of view.

Getting to this point is often a big relief, in my experience. Do you feel relieved? If you don't, then you're not done deciding what to do. In either case, best wishes to you.

Sun Jul 24, 2011 12:51 am by Ciarog

PoppyMcGee wrote:I appreciate all the feedback. Thanks a bunch. I've carefully read and thought about all of your suggestions, and I realized...I don't wanna. Which tells me all I need to know, really. I am just done with putting in the effort when I'm not seeing any results.

Thanks again for the perspective. It was definitely helpful to get a different point of view.

Great, now neither of you will have to worry about protecting your assets from the MZBs. Because you'll sue each other till Judgement Day, and the lawyers will take everything except your strongest sons and prettiest daughters (DFCS gets them).

SpockLives wrote:True. So after the non-threatening talk, slap his ass silly until his ego hits rock bottom, which is unlikely to be productive, but will make you feel better, and only when a man has been psychologically disassembled can he be led to the path of someone else's choice. Works for the Marines, right?

Marines can always take it out on third-world peasants when they suffer any unforeseen issues that arise from being stripped of their humanity. Not sure if that's a good mindset to give your spouse.

Sun Jul 24, 2011 7:40 am by SpockLives

Ciarog wrote:
SpockLives wrote:True. So after the non-threatening talk, slap his ass silly until his ego hits rock bottom, which is unlikely to be productive, but will make you feel better, and only when a man has been psychologically disassembled can he be led to the path of someone else's choice. Works for the Marines, right?

Marines can always take it out on third-world peasants when they suffer any unforeseen issues that arise from being stripped of their humanity. Not sure if that's a good mindset to give your spouse.

The disassembling and reconstruction of a Marine doesn't make them take things out on third-world peasants, it just means they are more pliable to doing what they are told. Which might be beating up third world peasants, but that isn't their fault, they just happen to be plentiful and popular to kick around by those actually giving the orders. But the pliable part, certainly that is what the OP needs, short of kicking the guy to the curb.

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